Christian Girls Survey on Boys

How old are you?

• 11 and younger
• 12
• 13
• 14
• 15
• 16
• 17
• 18 and older

How much do boy's fill your time/thoughts?

• Almost overpower them (it seems that they are all I think about these days)
• Moderate amount of time (I think about them enough, but they don't take up all my time)
• Quite a bit (I seem to be thinking about them more and more these days)
• Hardly at all (I am very good at pushing them from my thoughts)
• Hardly at all (I have not reached the stage where I really like guys yet)

What type of guy really catches your attention (all can be known as "Christians"). Pick the one who attracts you the most, but if it is a mixture between two then pick two.

Please select all that apply.

• The rebel guy. He disrespects parents/authority and has a wicked smile. I know whenever I hang out with him things will be exciting.
• The nice guy. I know he will treat me with respect and his shyness is awkwardly cute.
• The strong guy. I like guys who are strong and physically attractive.
• The smart guy. He has a lot of brains and knows a lot of stuff, and I like to learn stuff from him.
• The knowing guy. Someone who has been there before and his wild stories are interesting to me.
• The good guy. He reads his Bible lots and I know he won't try anything on with me because he respects me and his faith is true.
• The party animal. He likes to have a good time and while he might not actually party like the world does, he seems to have that attitude.
• Other (please comment and tell me who he is (what he is like)).

What things attract you to a guy (you can like the attitude/thing or not, but it is what kind of guys you seem to hang around):

Please select all that apply.

• His personality
• His smartness (brains, not attitude)
• Him being proud/arrogant
• Him being funny
• His humbleness/humility
• His looks
• His sarcasm
• His clothes/shoes (what he wears)
• His randomness (you can't quite keep up with him in the things he likes/does)
• His unavailibility (the boy will always be attacted to someone and you seem to like that?)
• Other (if you choose this please tell me in a comment)
• His body (muscles, skinnyness/chubbyness)
• He is romantic

What kind of guys are you more attracted to:

• Very skinny guys
• Very chubby guys
• Slightly chubby guys
• Strong and muscular guys
• Just plain skinny guys

Do you find yourself liking your guy friends after you have been friends a while or liking random guys and then becoming there friend because you like like them?

• Friends first
• Like them first
• Half & half

Do you talk to your mum or dad (would usually be a mother) about guys you like?

• Yes, we discuss when I like a boy openly and we talk about everything to do with guys
• Yes, there are some things I don't talk with her about, but she knows who I like at the moment and things like that
• Yes, but we only talk about boys in general, not specific guys
• No, we do not talk about guys in that way
• No, my mother is gone

How often do you and your girl friends talk about boys?

• When are we not talking about boys? Does that answer your question?
• Quite often, although we talk about other things (sports, God, parents, etc) more
• Lots and lots, just a bit more than we talk about other common things
• Not very much (they aren't very important to our conversations)
• On the odd occassion we talk lots about them, but mostly not too much
• Other (please comment what this is)

Do your friends keep you accountable on how much you talk/fantasize about a guy/guys, or do they let you run rampant talking about them?

• We are very vivid in talking about guys, my friends and I are.
• Most of my friends and I talk lots about guys, but one of my friends always stops me before I go too far in talking about him
• No, not at all.
• Yes, my best friend makes sure that I am rational and reasonable about how much I like a guy, considering how we are both so young
• Other (please comment on what this is)

Would you consider yourself to be a rational person when it comes to boys, or do you often find yourself dreaming about going out with him when you haven't even spoken yet?

• I am ration
• I have my moments, but mostly I keep my thoughts and heart in line
• I am not rational at all
• I am sometimes rational, but only when I have to be. I like to fantasize about marrying certain guys sometimes even though I am only so young

How old do you think is a good age to marry?

• 16-18
• 18-21
• 21-24
• 24-26
• 27-30
• 30 and older

How often do you read books/articles/watch movies with romantic content (movies that are love stories)?

• Daily
• Weekly
• Monthly
• Hardly ever, I don't like them
• Never unless I am forced to
• Whenever I can, I love love stories!

How far do you think is too far, in a movie you are watching, for the loving couple to go?

• Holding hands is alright, anything above that is not good
• Kissing (mild) is fine, anything above that is a no-no
• Making out, it is fine. But not above that
• Sleeping ("doing it") together is alright. It is only a movie after all
• Other (please explain in your comment)

How far is too far for you to go on a first date?

• I don't date/will not date
• Holding hands
• Kissing
• Making out (hot kissing)
• Any type of "doing it" (the world is confused about what "s"e"x" is. If you do anything that is to do with someone private parts or whatever, it is s(ex) and should be saved for marriage)
• Other (please comment on this)

If you were to have a boyfriend (it is only thinking about it, not saying that you would have one) what qualities would it be important to you he had?

Please select all that apply.

• Romantic
• Hot/cute/attractive
• Funny
• Sarcastic
• Skinny
• Chubby
• In-the-middle weight
• Christian (believes in God and follows him)
• Doesn't have a name you previously didn't like (for me that would be old school names like Humphry, Alfred,etc)
• Gives you presents
• Is very serious
• Likes certain things (likes a certain sport, etc)
• Agrees with you on most things
• Other (please comment on what that other thing is)

If a boy asked you to have s;;ex with him, and you really liked him, what would you do? (These things are anonymous, so answer honestly)

Please select all that apply.

• Yes, I would, if I really liked him and wanted to keep him as my good friend
• No, I realize that by sleeping with a guy he loses interest and that our friendship will never return to its full goodness afterwoods
• No, I just wouldn't want to do that, it has to do with my convictions
• Yes, I like him, so I would do that for him.

Do you have anyone that you can talk with if you are being pressured to do something you do not want to or if you have any questions about boys

• Yes
• No
• I do, but I have not talked to them about such things yet. I know I can talk to them if I need to, though

Who is this person from the above question?

• One of my parents
• One of my brothers or sisters
• A familiar member that is not closely related (aunty, uncle, grandparent, cousin, etc)
• A close friend
• Just another friend, no one especially close to me
• Other (if other please comment who they are)

Do you consider dating to be wrong?

• No, why would I?
• Not dating in itself, but at my young age (teenage) it is silly to date, because we have no idea of getting married, just wanting to get close to each other (physically) without a committment of marriage
• I think that dating is a way for people to kiss (and other things) without feeling bad about it
• Other (if other please comment on it)

Is it wrong to have s(ex) outside of marriage?

• Yes, the Bible says so.
• Yes, but I am not sure how come. It is just wrong
• No, I can do what I want with my body. It is my body.
• No, it is not wrong.

Do you have any questions you would like answered about boys and God, etc?

• Yes.
• No.
• I kinda do.
• (This is not an answer): If you have any questions, feel free to ask me on my profile, or email me on skateboardforchrist@hotmail.com